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you'll say that your fears of being in a relationship is caused by phobia , phobia of being hurt. Truth is, many people are victims when it comes to love. People are bound to get hurt in this game. We all know it is difficult to prevent hurt that's why we would rather not try it out.

So what if you have been ditched badly? To me, I believe that someone better might come along. (and that was what happened to me (L) ^^) And if that someone better happened to be just like your previous then it just goes to show that he's just another jerk and you guys are not compatible.

And when there is no capatibility between the two, it is useless , no matter how hard you try to salvage it. Sad but true. There will still be love but how much of that would be left in time to come? I guess , compatibility and commitment is what scares people the most. I often get scared of all these too, especially the compatibility part. It's like the most basic that couples need to be compatible, I'm not just saying the characters/personality have to be compatible I guess somehow looks matters too.

I found this very wordy blog draft of mine which was typed way back then in 2009. Decided to publish it to the public now haha . kinda lame though, sooo last year but I think it doesnt matter anyhowz !